Finding Your Place at God's Table
- Jessica Carleo
- 3 days ago
- 3 min read
Most of us remember that first lunchroom moment - the weight of the tray, scanning the room with nervous eyes, wondering "Is there a place for me here?" That question follows us throughout life as the lunchroom transforms into neighborhoods, workplaces, and congregations. We find ourselves either waving people over or holding our table for those who look like us.
What Did Jesus Pray For in His Final Hours?
In John 17, somewhere between the upper room and the garden of Gethsemane, Jesus stops and prays aloud. This is the longest recorded prayer of Jesus in the Gospels, and what he chooses to pray for is remarkable. On the night of his greatest suffering, he doesn't pray for relief or a way out. Instead, he prays for the people he's leaving behind.
Jesus Prayed for Unity, Not Uniformity
"'Holy Father, protect them by the power of your name, the name you have given me, so that they may be one as we are one'" - John 17:11.
Jesus doesn't pray for his followers to think, look, or vote alike. He prays that they would be one as he and the Father are one. The Trinity itself shows us that unity doesn't mean uniformity - Father, Son, and Spirit are distinct yet exist in perfect, unbroken relationship of self-giving love.
Why Did Jesus Choose Such Different Disciples?
The twelve disciples Jesus chose weren't an accident. A fisherman and a tax collector didn't naturally share a lunch table. A zealot who wanted to overthrow Rome and a collaborator with Rome didn't naturally share a movement. Yet they all shared a Lord who held them together.
This kind of diversity held in unity isn't a weakness - it's one of the Church's most powerful witnesses.
The Beauty of the Mosaic
Think of a mosaic. If every tile were the same color, it might be orderly, but it wouldn't be beautiful. The beauty comes precisely from the tension of different pieces held together. Every person in God's community is a different color, a different texture, shaped and sounding differently. God holds us all together into something the world cannot produce on its own.
What Does the Table Represent?
On the night Jesus instituted Holy Communion, he gathered around him a tax collector, a zealot, a denier, and a betrayer. He broke bread with all of them. That meal represented an invitation to extend the table one chair at a time and to dismantle whatever obstacles would keep people from God.
The Most Radically Inclusive Space
This table is the most radically inclusive space in the world. Jesus broke bread with people who would deny, abandon, and betray him. He made room for all of them, and he makes room for all of us. There are no reserved seats here. No group gets first priority. There is only the grace of God who pulls up chairs for people who have not yet arrived.
How Do We Live as Resurrection People?
Resurrection people extend their table to all people without reservation. We are called to look for the lunchroom moments in our daily lives - to find the person scanning the room, wondering if there's a place for them to belong.
The marks of resurrection are visible in how we treat others. We are not who we were; we are being raised and carry the marks of resurrection in our actions and attitudes toward others.
Life Application
This week, there's one simple but powerful challenge: pull up a chair for someone who is not already at your table. Look for the person in your workplace, neighborhood, or community who seems to be scanning the room with nervous eyes, wondering if they belong.
Consider these questions as you reflect on this message:
What "fences" have I built up without noticing that keep certain people away from my table?
Who in my life might be looking for a place to belong, and how can I extend an invitation?
How can I demonstrate that unity in diversity is beautiful rather than threatening?
What would it look like for me to carry the "marks of resurrection" in my daily interactions?
The call is clear: go from this table and look for the lunchroom moments in life. Find someone who needs to hear, "You're new here. Come sit with me." That's what resurrection looks like in the lunchroom of life - making room for others just as Christ has made room for us.







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